Reversed King of Moths

Today’s Card Draw is Reversed King of Moths (Wands)

The King of Moths brings trust, friendship, compassion, balance, passion and influence

Reversed brings mistrust, intolerance, interference, self-interest

A once happy situation has become the reversed breeding mistrust and judgement. Either you or the other individual in your life has become overbearing, intolerant and even a little self-centered. Be honest, do you think this is you or the other person? Ask yourself again. Do you keep telling someone how to live their life, judging what they do, or advising them that you know what’s best for them?

Take a step back, and evaluate the situation and whether you are on the giving or receiving end of the King. If on the receiving end it may be time to cut your losses, accept the situation as is and move on rather than try to negotiate.

If you are on the giving side of this, do you want to lose those people from your life? If not, figure out what you can do to make it right, ease up, and face the humility of apologizing as that is always the first step. However, if you apologize, but don’t change the behavior, then you will inevitably lose them.

What’s more difficult is if this is a situation of addiction, where you may be trying to help the other person, but have now become too involved. It feels like your life only rotates around controlling their actions and they are constantly trying to get away. In this case you must make a decision, as your mental health is now affected along with several other aspects of your life. You can either continue on this path of self destruction and resentment that doesn’t help either of you, or step away. You can still offer them support in ways that don’t affect you negatively.

This card is intense, and may not make everyone happy. If you find you’re not happy, read it again to find out why. Then a third time to learn from it. It’s very easy to blame, and very difficult to accept our own failings. If you have any questions let me know.